Being a Good Dad

Posted on 21 Jun 2020, Pastor: Rev. Derek Geldart

One of the best and yet most terrifying experiences in my life was when I became a dad. From the moment I saw those two “pink lines” I knew I was over my head! I was not prepared to helplessly watch my wife struggle with wild food cravings, morning sickness, sore back, hips, and ankles! Even though I was not the one in pain and was supposed to be “calm” and strong I only vaguely remember the trip to the hospital! The wait was long, but once I saw our child come forth from the womb, I was very emotional. On the one hand I was overwhelmed with joy but on the other hand I was filled with anxiety for with such an incredible gift from God comes great responsibility! Would I make a good dad? Would I be able to work hard and provide our child with what was needed to “succeed” in life? Would I have the stamina to keep up with the pitter patter of little feet that would one day take me on unending events such as music lessons, sports, drama teams and the like? Would I be able to put away my selfish desires and place the needs of our child first? Then I got thinking about our child’s spiritual training. Would I be able to become a good role model and exemplify what it means to be a “living sacrifice” unto our God? Would I be able to remain calm and share God’s wisdom in the face of childish defiance? This sermon is going to propose the answer to all these questions is “YES” anyone can become a “good” dad if they are willing to build their family in God’s name!